Its Messy With Jess

Life goes on honey!

Gawwwwwd!!! What is life if you’re not typing? lol I’m kidding I honestly haven’t had the time to be on the computer to talk to you guys. It’s either I’m sick, I’m working or I’m spending time with Jayden. But today I got to work in the back, so that’s good! jeje

anywayssss.. lol (I promise I wasn’t eating popcorn and drinking fresh watermelon water that my mum made lolol)

Me fellow messy people, this year has start off GREAT! I’m currently in a relationship with my best friend Ernesto(prefers: ernie, or neto). We’ve been dating since Dec., 28th and honestly I can’t thank God enough for him. We’ve been through some huge bumps already, it’s a looooooong story but just know we are passing through the storms with the help of God and my family. We moved out to our own apartment in April and it has been the greatest decision so far. My parents of course didn’t like the idea but dad asked us several times if we loved each other and we both said Yes, so we moved out and well now we have our own little family Neto, Jayden and Me! (:

Jayden loves him so much. When Ernie is at work, and I’m off with Jayden; he will ask me every five mins “Where is Ernie, mami?” It’s heart warming to know that they both love each other so much. I’m glad I chose him. I am falling more in love with this guy every day (it’s nuts). I should probably tell you guys how we met. lol 

I met Ernesto at……………. WORK. lolol (how common? right? no? ohkayyy) anyways I met him at work, When they brought me back to life at CDR again. lol I honestly thought he was the most funniest and handsome guy. I’m not gonna lie we have an age difference but does love come in ages? no it doesn’t at least not for me. I’m older than him and well like i said age doesn’t matter to me or him. Sooooo yeahhh lol. We’re both still growing up and learning many things each and every day that goes by…  

Okaaaay so that’s pretty much what I have going on in my life right now.,.,. 

One other thing is I’m trying to start like a hobby diy thing and try to sell on etsy or online but I can’t think of any ideas, maybe y’all came help me out? Everything is possible with God in your mind. So I know I can accomplish this. 

Well I gotta go back to acting like I’m working lol. I’ll talk to you guys later, I promise. I’m not going A-Wall on y’all. 😊😘 

-Stay messy my loves! Xoxo, Jess. 


23 Years Young.

Hebrews12;7 Happy Birthday to me!  Today I turned 23 years young, gosh I feel so old to be honest. Anyways before this day is over, I want to thank God for letting me live another day of life. For letting me see his creations and live by His plans. For the wonderful family and friends he gave me. For Jayden. For my past & future blessings. For everything he has ever given and taken away. I know that what’s in my life and what is not that’s the way he wants it.Thank You Lord, I Love You so much! 

I honestly feel so blessed. Even though I’m going through a rough messy month, I know I’m being watched over and taken care of. This next coming week is gonna be a very busy week for me and Jay. The mediation meeting is coming up  for me and his dad, and I’m so nervous about it. I don’t know why. But I’m leaving everything in Gods hands. Then Jay will be having picture day at school!! *gaaaaa that’s exciting 😀 * & then a field trip to a farm! 😀 😀 *I think I’m more excited then he is* Busy busy week!… 

Also, today I received a call from an Electronic store I use to work at and they want to give me my job back. [ Do you guys see why I’m saying I’m being watched over] God is really showing me that without him I’m nothing. I know he wants me back on his path, and that’s where I’m heading. I pray that this month is full of blessings for this single mom and her child. I’m not giving up. No sir. 

On the other hand, I’m trying to put this bug out by 9 and let me tell you so far no wins for me. Gosh this is so hard. Like I don’t understand how some of y’all do it. Please I beg if y’all can give me some hints, advice, opinions, anything helps. *jaja* 

Well my messy bloggers don’t forget to always put your trust in God, don’t give up just yet. ,,,,, Welp this messy mom and her adorable messy child are turning the lights off. Hope you all have a blessed night. *muaaaahhh* 


Life break.

You know that moment you realize you have a couple of minutes to actually breathe…, yeahhhhh I have that break right now.

I haven’t been able to get on and talk to you guys about my mess lately, because we recently just moved houses {Felt like we were never gonna finish packing & unpacking}. We haven’t finished to be honest, dads handy stuff are still in the old house. I say we’ll be done by the end of this week.

Thank God this house they now own, so we won’t be moving anymore. {Maybe I will, hopefully someday I find a loving and caring (don’t forget hardworking) husband. 😊} For the time being I will remain there and stay positive in life! 

Sharing rooms with my 3 year old has been like a war. {Jaja} He wants to have his toys out ALL THE TIME. I think he even does it on purpose when I’m trying to clean or fold laundry{wait I don’t think, I KNOW}. I’m open for any ideas yall!
Here’s a little preview of our room.


That’s Jay in his bed, sleeping. {Jeje}
I’m still not done there’s pictures, posters, and lights that need to be hung. With school + helping my mom unpack, doesn’t give me any time. Also picking up Jayden from school or dropping him off, yep that’s timing I don’t have on my side right now.

Well I’ll talk to you guys later a little bit more about what’s messy this week. STAY MESSY GUYS!✌ 😙

Monday was Jaydens 1st day of school!

Jaydens 1st day of school! ♡
Jaydens 1st day of school! ♡ My little baby isn’t such a baby anymore, I’m happy but sad at the same time! 😢

A moment to remember.

So I think that right now is a moment to remember; my brothers, parents and I are watching TV all together. {no one is arguing or yelling jaja} I’m serious guys this is very surprising.

Me and my son currently live under my parents roof, as do my two brothers. It’s four of us {siblings} all together, Sam the oldest, Becky {my sister} the second oldest, George the third, and then it’s me Jess the baby {not much of a baby but mom and dads baby jeje}. My sister has a little beautiful 3 year old girl named Belen {she’s 5 months apart from Jay}, oh and she is also expecting a little baby boy!! 

There’s a lot more to my life that will unravel later on…

Have a great night bloggers!

Hey guys!

I’m gonna remind you guys that I’m new at this and it’s not easy to start a blog but I know I’ll get the hang of it. So right now I’m outside of school and can’t decided if I should go home and start packing or if I should just chill…., but knowing me I’m about to close this laptop and head home, jaja. sooo I’ll talk to you guys later.

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